Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Working class hero...again


Last week I had my first day of work, in Bucharest, after a 1 year break. I work for a great international federation (no ass kissing, they really are http://www.iesf.com/index.php?p=home) and I have two lovely colleagues, which happen to also be my friends. We have a great office, close to my high school, so I am surrounded by wonderful feelings every morning. I am a marketing officer now (English job title, because the Romanian job code makes me something like "relation organizer" which to me sounds a bit like a PIMP, not marketing stuff). A few things seem to have changed since the crises. I have to mention that when I left the Romanian work force, it was the beginning of the crises in Romania and everything was still all rainbows and butterflies. I knew salaries drooped like crazy while life was more and more expensive, but my bubble of joy from across the border kept me away from this. Now - I'm back.

In order to get the salary I wanted (a pretty good amount for the Romanian market considering myself, but way lower than I made in Denmark while cleaning 3 hours/ day) I accepted to work with a civil convention, not a work contract. A civil convention involves only the payment of mandatory state taxes, taking out unemployment, health and retirement. My employer is not cheap, but in a crises situation most companies work like this, because taxes are pretty high (in case anyone is curious, this is how much a company pays for every employee in tax: http://www.calculatorsalariu.ro/). Since I'm young and I never know where my life goes, I took the agreement.

Today I went to register my work convention...of course not at the right place (maybe I should learn how to read Romanian state web sites, because it's the second time, or start using the phone). When I got to the right place I found out that the form I had was wrong, because in was on intellectual property...so I had to fill out another one. I applied everything without any problems...at least for 30 minutes. A nice lady tells me that she can't register my convention, because I don't actually own an authorization to offer my services...This is a special authorization given by the National Commerce Register to freelancers. So...now I am some sort of freelancer as a "relation organizer" which makes me officially a P.I.M.P. :P. To get this, you need of course tons of paper work, time and money (http://www.onrc.ro/documente/ghid/1_pfa.pdf).

My colleagues told me that since the crises most people work like this. Taxes go super low and it's a nice way to trick a bit the state, because you make your own accounting and you can deduct some amounts out of the final tax with regular bills. Sounds good, I guess...but I don't like running around the city and dealing with sour administration employees. I guess I need a secretary (if anyone is interested by this job, note that I am moneyless).

Still looking for solutions to fix this...I wish it would be easier...every time I hit state owned services my head starts hurting. I am not spoiled in anyway, but common...shouldn't these things be easier and shouldn't the state make our life wonderful, so we can work longer and with energy to feed it with taxes?!

P.S.
1.it's been 1 month since I applied my request letter to the Ministry of Education about my rights as an EU student...and still no answer

2. today I had taste for something with vitamin C, a fruit to be exact, and though I walked around the whole city center, I couldn't find one fruit/vegetable shop...until I got close to my office, where everything is super expensive...I could find clothes, pastry, tabbaco, cofee, junk food...eating healthy food could do good to our lives and the West loves healthy stuff...I guess we don't, though we still produce some and it could be cheaper.

Ok...I stop complaining here...maybe I should start asking myself the question everybody has on their lips "why the hell didn't I stay there, if it was so great?!"...I guess I did it for some people I missed.

Sunday, November 08, 2009

Going somewhere?

I don't think Sleeping Beauty was sad she had to sleep for a while and wake up with a kiss and a forever-lasting story. I'm looking at the phone waiting for a sign and hoping that everything is ok the other side of Europe. I want to write something empathetic, but I don't know what...I would only like to change some things, but unfortunately they don't stand in my power. Maybe I can skip some months and put myself on fast forward. At least I have a great job I can focus on, while other things settle. I am a fan of the witch that put the curse on Sleeping Beauty. There are 100 songs describing my mood, 100 screenplays and 100 novels, but there's nothing like living a story that you learn about in fairytale words. I promise to leave my stubbornness aside and be patient because it is a virtue and I need it.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Loving Romania =4=


This post is closer to the people surrounding me, girls who are survivors of a systems that's pushing them to sentimental suicide. Since I came home, I mostly met with my girlfriends. I haven't seen or to talked to some in a while. They are all my age and we know each other pretty well and talk about everything and anything. I am talking about girls I know from highschool, work or university. Other than the fact that they are my friends, another thing they have in common is their relationship with guys. When I left everybody was almost "married" and now most are sad, lonely or in confusing situations. I feel like everything turned upside down. I am definitely not talking about myself now, but about all the girls around me, who feel bad and sometimes do stupid things not to think about "those who we don't speak about". I usually take the side of the opposite sex, because I know that girls can sometimes be difficult, but these days I've been a little confused. I don't get who's fault is it: girls or boys?! I don't know if these things were there before and I was to selfish to see them or I just missed for a while and forgot that it's not all rainbows and butterflies. I have not faced these problems for a while, not coming from other people than myself. I thought I was the only one having problems and going into odd situations.

Is it just because of the weather?! Is my generation mentally deranged and we will not manage to procreate, because we are all to confused to see into each others eyes?! Are we not willing to make sacrifices anymore and stopped believing in feelings?! Are feelings just another part of this world of consumption, and we started looking for the cheapest, because we know that if it will not work and we are not sad when we “throw it away and get another one”?! Do we all believe and live a fake Western life we are not yet ready to comply with, and we get lost and confused by the too many things we would like to have in a society that offers little to people my age?!